Relationships

Over a bottle of spring & an icy tall glass of tap water,

my friend and I talked relationships

The fun of being in them & making things work

What are the key points to a relationship?

The do's & don'ts for when you actually like a person

〫don't act like a brat & whine all the time

‹it's not cute›

〫do work with him to have balance in the relationship

〫don't call him out on things you don't like just because

you're mad

〫do suggest characteristics that you like, that he can improve on

-tell him you like it when he...

‹he's not a mind reader, so he might not know if you don't tell him›

〫don't mention other guys just because they're hot

-he could care less about celebrities

〫do mention that you like him & everything about him

‹he won't mind hearing it ☺›

If you don't like the person

〬Don't embark on a relationship just because...

-if you're lonely and want to cuddle, get a monkey–they hug back

life is already a roller coaster to before adding relationship swirls

go on and give things a try & don't procrastinate if you have to

say something important

Relationships should fun & beautiful, not convenient

"love, it's a beautiful thing..."

remember that hearts may be hurt, but that there is part of the growing process

"no hay despecho que dure 100 años

ni cuerpo que lo resista" -spanish saying

-Bionica

How to smoke a cigar

First you invite your friend over to the cigar shop,

This is done after munching on an interesting lunch

that left your taste buds wondering…

Then once at the shop, you introduce her to the sweet & spicy blends

that you do not know ;-)

Asking for her introductory expertise on an ancient past time

Once the best cigars are picked out,

The two of you wander on out to a day blessed with sun

Sitting across from one another on a park bench

you cross your legs while gently stirring an imaginary sherry on one hand

The other hand is holding your cigar

While smokes puffs encircle like that of the caterpillar's

Your friend wonders about that distinct allure of a cigar

She quietly finds conversation hoping that it maintains the theme that is light

Eventually your cigar reaches its point as it was very well spent

And you take the last sip of your imaginary sherry

culminating a round of flavor

That is how you smoke a cigar =)

Hmm...

OMG sometimes I get confused

and don't know what to do

To love or fall in love?

Will love just fall? How does it work?

Do we just dive into it or is it already there?

Man all these thoughts move me to think and wonder

To wait more or make things happen...

Why do I hold back? What thoughts, why not go?

Should I???

-B.